I was gullible for several reasons.
I had only been in Shanghai for a couple of days, having just arrived from Taiwan. Being a foreigner in countries like Taiwan and China can be a little bit difficult if you don't know any Chinese.
I mean they have a symbol for like every word, it's a much more visually complicated language compared to Almost any other.
If any girl walks over and starts talking to you while in The Bund area and if she asks if you want to get tea/coffee or food.. Then immediately tell her to fuck off!